South Koreans have being called “the Irish of the Orient.” This is because they can be likeable, affectionate, passionate people who enjoy partying and imbibing.

Yet there is another side that prevents them from showing emotion or sentiment. For example, although South Koreans are always polite and courteous, it is sometimes difficult for them to express those feelings. It is therefore useful if we could understand the Korean customs when we are communicating with them.

Here are some Korean customs worth noting.

(1) Seniority and age are highly respected. This ranges from offering seats to elderly person on the bus to showing special respect for the most senior businessperson at a meeting.

(2) Married women in Korea who adhere to traditional ways will wear their hair in a neat, round bun, while unmarried women favour a pigtail.

(3) In Korea, males rules the society and women are usually subordinated.

(4) Korean women will be flattered if a Western visitor opens a door for them or practices “ladies first”.

(5) Direct eye contact is not practiced in Korea. In fact, it is considered as impolite.

(6) Handshake may be weak rather than firm. Any other body contact is avoided.

(7) Avoid first-name usage until invited to do so.

(8) Blowing nose in public is considered gauche, but belching is not.

(9) Avoid any action or statement that could bring embarrassment.

(10) Heavy drinking and even drunkenness are not frowned upon in Korean. In fact, this is considered a typical way to become friends.

(11) Social entertainment often involves karaoke singing. Even if your musical repertoire is limited, stand up and join the singing.

(12) When invited to a home, the hostess may be too busy to eat with guests.

(13) People, especially women, will cover their mouths when laughing.

“Do’s and Taboos of Using English Around the World” by Roger E. Axtell. Published by John Wiley & Sons, Inc. 1995.